POOR QUALITIES FOR RELATIONSHIPS Arguments Always have to, have the last word Answering A question with: (1) A question, (2) Throwing blame, (3) Changing subject, (4) Silence (no response) Could at least acknowledge, and say; let me think about it. Belittle (put downs) Bringing attitudes home, or Taking attitudes out Constantly bringing up past negatives Deception Defensive Dragging past baggage Deliberately ignoring people Double Standards Expecting to much Expecting to little Expecting people to remember everything Nagging Expecting people to always agree with you Not communicating Expecting people to read your mind Overly sensitive Immature acts Pointing blame Inconsiderate Selfishness Insecure Spite Insensitive To negative (over all) Jealousy Treating m--- w---- t--- y--- f------ Jumping to conclusions Taking f-------- o-- o- y--- m--- Lies Telling P----- w--- t--- t---- (m--- r------) Living in the past Unconcern Making o----- p-- f-- p--- h---- Vindictive E. V. SIMS |